Not everyone buys into being positive and treating the cleaner the same as the CEO concept, I would suggest that they are looking for magnetic rocks everywhere ! Positive thoughts, actions, directions and goals are congruent to most of our beliefs and therefore great for our physical health, being a tyrant just isn't.
1) what ever we give energy to - we receive!
2) We are what we think, think we can do it , then we have a chance or think we cannot we surely can’t. Believe your a success of failure, you are right !
3) What ever we look for we find, look for trouble, look for failure look for bad luck that's what you will get! Just think of luck as the new car concept, get a new car and then see loads of your car model everywhere you look. Think you are unlucky and a victim guess what you wont even notice good things happening.
4) The only the way the past (or a magnetic rock) can damage you is if you are still living it.
(Negative behaviour - Criticism of others achieves nothing - Abraham Lincoln )
Magnetic Rock -True Story
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Years ago I was a student on a kayak course on the River Awe in Scotland, on a river bend there was a famous rock called “the magnetic rock”. We were all warned to avoid the rock at all costs, guess what? We all hit it and capsized and took a swim. In our minds AVOID ROCK -AVOID ROCK - AVOID ROCK”””” ahhhhh splash! You see, paddling to safety but looking at danger - we still get danger
Years later on a level 3 coaching assessment course - on the same river, same bend the assessor talked about the bend, but not a word about the rock. Guess what? We all avoided the rock and happily passed the obstacle. Don't focus on the rock, rock focus on the end in mind - 7 habits old school knowledge. After that moment when coaching a scary or technical section, I would ask the paddlers to picture what they would need to do to navigate the section of water and picture arriving in the safe water (eddy) with a smile on their face successful. Basically its amazing visualization gaol setting, that works.
Positive thought and now
Same thing in life - what ever you look for you will ultimately find, some bumps along the road but you will get there or be in a better place in the end. Look for good and not bad - try it.
Look for positive people - Speak in positive terms - Treat people well and speak ill of no man/ woman - Think well of people - avoid stuff that makes you unhappy (especially the things you cannot change) be the positive change, make every interaction with another human a positive one. Don’t live by excuses - no one actually believes them!
Don’t look for your magnetic rock look for your way around the river bend, instead
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